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cleanhands posted:

mongosteen posted:

what is the proper way to think about friendzoning. should we have sympathy for the poor man who is heartbroken and lonely, or should we regard him as a villain for his lies to keep the subject of his affections close

some of my friends use the word friend zone unironically, it irritates me mainly because i actually like my friends even though friendship is apparently some kind of blood curse

mostly its due to loneliness and being steeped in media where a man aint nothin if he aint fuckin but these are intelligent, thoughtful guys usually, why the fuck cant they police their own thoughts



Agreed but they're probably lonely as a result of being 'thoughtful'

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im thoughtful and 'babes' 'dig' 'it'
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Yeah same but i guess it's the difference between engaging-thoughtful and myopic-thoughtful
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unironically the best piece of advice about women i ever got from the mass media growing up was stifler at the beginning of american pie saying you just gotta talk to them about their problems and shit....lol
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UNUSUALY COOL
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what is most important is that we express our own fears as rage at the unsolvable crime of our existence
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this should be "why do girls keep putting me in the boyfriend zone" because in today's feminist world betahood has been so co-opted into mainstream culture that alphas are continuously boyfriendzoned and must live in constant fear of rape by envelopment resulting in pregnancy and child support extortion
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Thread idea: Does Ladder Theory Still Apply to Transgender People?
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Ironicwarcriminal posted:

I get that this behaviour still falls under the umbrella of 'patriarchy' but it's a reaction to something more specific than that


that's america, that's how debate is done in america, that's how we decide all of our questions from who blows as a singer to which blathering dictator we should oppose/depose/impose. we don't have beliefs, we don't have positions, we have reactions to other people's beliefs, to other people's positions.

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Keep your zones off my body!!!
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hi
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wish some nice girl would friendzone me, all i can seem to do is have one-night stands or long awkward fuck relationships that never materialize into anything meaningful
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and the girls i'm friends with who have boyfriends seem to keep me merely as a rebound possibility for when they break up with their current guy. where all the ladies who just want to be friends?? whehree??!
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Poronto
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the ketamine girl sent me some nudes and asked for some in return, so i sent them and she stopped talking to me. i should just give up and get back with my wife, we probably deserve each other
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having friends is awesome, silly sexhavers and their deviant ways
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littlegreenpills posted:

the ketamine girl sent me some nudes and asked for some in return, so i sent them and she stopped talking to me. i should just give up and get back with my wife, we probably deserve each other



oh there you are, i have been wondering/worried about you. jfc, lgp. how are those escape savings looking? stop spending it all on ketamine paypal scams and get outta there!

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Poronto
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i aim for $1000 as first-n-last on a decent living situation and am now at $300 in two weeks should be out of here before summer's over, tyfyc
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political car tune
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love finds a way
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littlegreenpills posted:

the ketamine girl sent me some nudes and asked for some in return, so i sent them and she stopped talking to me. i should just give up and get back with my wife, we probably deserve each other



catchphrase 4x combo

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political car tune
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i keep putting the ladies in the girlfriend zone because it's the best distraction from the horror
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The Ketamine Girl
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the ketamine girl vs the amphetamines lady. greatest rap battles of history
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*strumming on guitar, soulfully*

ketamine giiiiiiiiiiirl
ooooooh ketamine girl
why you gotta hurt me ketamiiiiiiine girl
a ketamine girl is a very mean girl

i sent you my nudes
i know it ain't much
but right now i need you
sweet ketamiiiiiiiine girl

i would buy you some ketamine
sweet ketamine girl
if it would buy me some time with you
ooooooooh ketamine girl

youre like ketamine for my soul
and i know youre probably on the dole
i got three hundred with your name on it
so come visit me and put your claim on it

oooooooh ketamine girl
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UNUSUALY COOL
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time to hit the gym, get yourself up to ketamine standards
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mongosteen posted:

searches for feminism spike in the fall of each year, collapse in the winter, then rise in the spring, and bottom out in the summer, over and over, year after year. why? college students are googling it for assignments but don't actually care

yeah, if you do the trend search thing for communism or socialism or recession or really anything, the trend patterns are due to school. too much noise to see any underlying trend. but all that means is "there are students googling this", there is no other useful conclusion to draw

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Ironicwarcriminal posted:

unironically the best piece of advice about women i ever got from the mass media growing up was stifler at the beginning of american pie saying you just gotta talk to them about their problems and shit....lol

it's really sexist to think of that as "advice about women". the whole point of having meaningful relationships with other people whether or not you're going to have sex with them is actually, you know, relating

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drwhat posted:

Ironicwarcriminal posted:

unironically the best piece of advice about women i ever got from the mass media growing up was stifler at the beginning of american pie saying you just gotta talk to them about their problems and shit....lol

it's really sexist to think of that as "advice about women", though, like the whole point of having meaningful relationships with other people whether or not you're going to have sex with them is actually, you know, relating


Actually, it's your genes pursuing a strategy to maximize their own propagation. The friendship holding pattern is an attempt to raise the chances of successful reproduction with a single mate, as opposed to a multiple mate, low average reproductive success strategy of clubbing and casual sex.

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I know a girl who / goes in holes
she don't use shovels / or any of those
she don't climb ladders / or take the stairs
she just wants to / be unaware

she uses ketamine
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si hubo friendzoning!
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cleanhands posted:

mongosteen posted:

what is the proper way to think about friendzoning. should we have sympathy for the poor man who is heartbroken and lonely, or should we regard him as a villain for his lies to keep the subject of his affections close

some of my friends use the word friend zone unironically, it irritates me mainly because i actually like my friends even though friendship is apparently some kind of blood curse

mostly its due to loneliness and being steeped in media where a man aint nothin if he aint fuckin but these are intelligent, thoughtful guys usually, why the fuck cant they police their own thoughts

there is a policeman inside all our heads, he must be, uh, subjected to sensitivity training

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